Tuesday, May 18, 2010

A New Direction.

We've been praying about a decision that we've needed to make. There really is no way to write down the thoughts and emotions that we've each (Steve and myself) been having. I attempt to write about our experience in making this decision so that we can look back and remember the journey that led us to where our life has gone.

Steve was recently offered a job teaching at Lancaster Mennonite School. Not a school we ever saw Steve in...but, did God?

It's easy to talk about wanting to move "home" but when it comes down to it, is that what we really want? Is that what is really best for our family?

The school that Steve teaches at here in Florida is really beyond words. I've never seen anything like it. The opportunities that the kids have here are really endless. In all aspects-academic, extracurricular, spiritual and ministry. Every area is developed to the degree of perfection. There is something for every type of student.

Right along with that is the church. Pastor Bob Coy is one of the best pastors I have ever heard. The music and worship team are amazing and the kids programs are exceptional. Steve is part of a Next Generation Team and being mentored by one of the pastors. I meet with the wives once a month.

The church has a school of music (Ocean's Edge) where Steve has been able to use the studio to work on his own music.

So, why would we even consider leaving...

Family. Not having our extended family here to support us and share in our lives. Soon we'll have two kids and no help. We were both raised by not only our immediate family, but with grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles all playing a role in our upbringing. We know, from experience, how all these people can come into a child's life and shape that child into who they later become as an adult. Steve and I know that we lack in certain areas as parents, but that our families can fill in those voids.

It was largely due to this alone that brought us to the decision to accept the position and move our family to Lancaster.

It's strange to be at a place where the road splits and each option left will take our life on a completely different path. Each one would take our children through a different journey. We pray that we made the right decision, not for us but for our children.

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